When new clients hear that an instrumental part of my process is something called a food biography, they often look at me like I’ve just assigned them a memoir.

“Wait… you want me to remember my first memory of food? Like, ever?”

Yes. Yes, I do.

I’ve been a behavioral nutritionist for 30 years, and over that time I’ve learned this: your relationship with food did not start with your last diet, or your most recent “I’ll start again on Monday.” It started in childhood, at the table, in the car, at birthday parties, in lunchrooms, and in all the quiet little moments when food and feelings got woven together.

Discovering your Food Print is the heart of my work in Behavioral Nutrition. It’s a structured, compassionate exploration of your personal history with food; from your first memories to today, so we can understand how you got here, and more importantly, how you want to move forward.

What Is a Food Print?

Think of a Food Print as your individualized imprint of how food has shown up in your life.   It is a gentle, guided “life story” of your eating experiences. Together, we explore questions like:

• What were mealtimes like growing up?
• How did the adults in your life talk about weight, dieting, and bodies?
• Was food a source of comfort, conflict, celebration, or all of the above?
• When did you first become aware of your own body image?
• How have major life events (moves, relationships, illness, parenting) shown up in your eating patterns?

We’re not digging for drama; we’re looking for patterns, themes, and emotional threads. We’re interested in the stories you’ve absorbed:

“I have to finish everything on my plate.”
“Carbs are bad.”
“My worth is tied to my size.”
“I eat when I’m stressed / lonely / overwhelmed.”

These stories rarely come out of nowhere. They have origins, people, moments, comments, and cultural messages that settled into your nervous system and took root.

Why Go All the Way Back?

I’m often asked, “Can’t we just skip to what I’m eating now and fix that?”

We do look at your current patterns. But if we only focus on what’s on your plate today, we’re working at the surface. Behavioral Nutrition goes deeper, because:

Current behaviors usually have historical roots.  You might think you “lack willpower,” when in reality you learned early on that food was your safest comfort or your only reward. That’s not a character flaw;  that’s an adaptation.

You can’t change what you don’t understand. When you see how your present-day patterns were formed, a lot of shame starts to loosen. Instead of “What’s wrong with me?” the question becomes, “Does this still serve me?”

Insight opens the door to re-wiring.  Once you recognize that a belief came from a stressed parent, a school experience, or an old diet culture script, you can decide if it actually belongs in your adult value system.

This isn’t about blaming your past. It’s about understanding it so you can make different choices now.

The Emotions Behind the Eating

Food biography work often brings up emotion—not because anything is “wrong” with you, but because food has been there for a lot of your life’s most tender moments.

Clients remember:

• Being praised or criticized for their size
• Being forced to eat certain foods or restricted from others
• Using food to self-soothe during conflict or loneliness
• Secret eating, guilt, or hiding wrappers
• The first time they felt “different” in their body compared to peers

We hold all of that with compassion. There is room for grief, anger, relief, and even humor. “So that’s why I panic when there are free donuts in the break room.”

Instead of trying to bulldoze over reactions like bingeing, restricting, or emotional eating, we get curious: What is this behavior trying to protect you from? What was it helping you cope with when you first learned it?

When your patterns finally make sense, change stops feeling like punishment and starts feeling like an act of self-care.

From Deep-Rooted Patterns to Aligned Choices

The ultimate goal of a discovering your food print is not to stay in the past; it’s to connect the dots between then and now so you can consciously choose what comes next.

In our work together, we use your story to:

• Identify patterns that no longer match who you are or what you value
• Gently question inherited beliefs (“Is this actually true? Is it helpful?”)
• Create new narratives around food, body, and self-worth
• Design practical strategies that align with your present-day life and nervous system

For example, a client might realize:

 “I eat quickly and compulsively because growing up, there was never enough, and you had to take what you could get.”  So, we can work on safety around food, structured availability, and slowing down without triggering that old scarcity alarm.

Or:

“I restrict all day because I internalized that being ‘good’ means eating less, then I end up overeating at night.”  So, we can work on nourishment earlier in the day, body respect, and dismantling the idea that hunger is a moral failing.

You’re not just “fixing eating habits.” You’re re-wiring your patterns to match your current values: respect, health, pleasure, calm, autonomy.

Final Thoughts

You’ve probably tried quick fixes before: the meal plan, the macro counting, the “reset,” the detox that promised to change your life in seven days if you just drank enough green liquid.

If those worked long-term, you wouldn’t be reading this.

A  Food Print takes a different path. It asks more of you emotionally, but it gives more back. It helps you:

• Understand why you do what you do
• Release shame you’ve carried for years
• Choose new patterns that feel like you, not like a diet imposed on you

And yes, we will talk about vegetables at some point. I am still a nutritionist, after all. But first, we talk about you, your history, your heart and your beliefs.

When your relationship with food is built on insight and self-respect, not fear and rules, you don’t have to white-knuckle your way through every meal. You get to feel more peaceful in your body and more aligned with who you’re finally becoming.

If you can laugh a little along the way, and embrace and honor your roots, and release blame, you will eventually find peace and joy along with a connection to yourself that you never knew was possible.  I would love to support you!